I NEED SERIOUS HELP! PLEASE READ!

I NEED SERIOUS HELP! PLEASE READ!

Okay, here's the full story on what happend yesterday and I DON'T know what to do, AND DON'T SUGGEST THAT I TALK TO HIM!

Here it is, I copied it from this other site..

"Yes, I DO infact have a stalker, and I have NO IDEA who he is, and why he's always looking at me eat, and walk away and whatever.

And like after I'm done eating my lunch and I go to the library and he's following me, I'm defiantly telling the principal on him for stalking me and making me feel paranoid..

At first I thought it was like he would just look at me as if it were a normal crush, y'know?

BUT THIS IS DIFFERENT!

Okay, here's the story..

Yesterday, after 4th period, I went to lunch and I thought "hopefully something is good to eat in the hot lunch line" and so I got my lunch, and went to sit at the table I usually sit at, and then my 2 friend's were talking to me, but then I glanced around the Cafeteria and I saw this person staring at me, with a blank look on his face, so I thought "eh, staring problem much?" and so I was continuing to eat my lunch, and then I look at the table that kid was sitting at and he wasn't there, but then I looked outside and then I turned my head and I saw him talking to one of the vice principals, and so I was continuing to eat my lunch, and then I was talking to my friend's about whatever, and then he was sitting back to where he was sitting, and then he was still looking at me with the same blank no-emotions face and so I told my friend's "why is he looking at me?" and they said "who?" and I said "that kid over there" and they were like "eh, he probably likes you" and so I told one of my friend's "i'm switching chairs with frank" and she was like "okay, that's cool", and so we were talking, but something told me to turn my head just for a second, and he was looking at me and once he saw me he turned his head quickly, and oddly, and so when my friend Frank sat next to me, I told him "he's still looking at me, dude, what do I do?" and he told that kid (that was always staring at me) "WHY ARE YOU LOOKING AT MY GIRL?" so that way he would stop staring, and, apperently, it didn't work, and so, I told Frank, "dude, just lean close to me so that way he would think that we're going out or something" and so he put his arm around me, and THE KID WAS STILL STARING AT ME.. and then lunch was over, and so as I was walking out of the Cafeteria, I saw that kid, and he was looking for me and so I was making sure he didn't see me at all, so I ran away from where he was at.. and I was paranoid through-out the whole day.. :glare:

And I'm defiantly not going to talk to the kid, 'cause that might make things worse and who knows what he'll even do to me.. and I'm not going to take any chances on it.

But even so, what SHOULD I do?
I need suggestions..!"

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Yeah, maybe on Monday, I'll tell the principle and hopefully the creep will get banned from the Cafeteria..

BTW, today at lunch, I was in line with my friend and OMG the creep was in front of my friend and I told my friend "hey dude, that's that creep that stalks me" and he was like "this kid? ew" xDD

And then I was still in line with my lunch and I was gonna get a fork, and the creep hurried up and grabbed one so he could touch my hand an I yelled out "OMG EWW!!! gross" xDD

It was hilarious! xD
But he was creepy, and even my friend said that he kept turning his head looking at me like every 5 seconds. O_O

I was so paranoid! O|

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If you want to deal with this yourself you first have to realize that something you did was the trigger that made him develop that abnormal fixation on you. It is by no means your fault since (I assume) you were just being yourself.
But something you must've done caught his attention on the first place and has him thinking that he's the cause of your action and therefore you have a connection.

Like you already said, talking to him or even acknowledging his action will only reinforce the deviated behavior of his, as he'll assume he's now the center of your attention.
So a rather effective solution would be finding out what caused him to have that image of you and in a subtle way, CRUSH IT, acting the opposite of how you actually would. Without him ever knowing you're acting out of your usual manner to make his fixation stop.
Please take notice I said "effective" and not "easy".
The easiest way would be for you (again without him knowing your actions are a consequence of his conduct) to find something/someone else for him to develop the same feeling/thought about it Sticking out tongue.

Anyway. You better stick with Christine's advice. Since dealing with something like this is much easier and safer with the help from someone. =)

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I would tell someone.....a teacher, your guidance counselor, the priniciple, anyone with some type of authority what's going on and how uncomfortable it makes you feel. The whole situation sounds pretty creepy to me.

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